Goodbye to a Friend

A few weeks ago I went to a celebration of the life of a friend. I went to graduate school with her and she died recently from an aggressive form of cancer. There are a lot of reasons why this has affected me, but I want to focus on one part in particular for this blog.

My friend was a government superstar. We had both received Master's Degrees from the Maxwell School of Citizenship and Public Affairs at Syracuse University. It is one of the best schools in the country for public administration, and at one of the best schools, she has been one of the most successful. Her obituary in the Washington Post talks briefly about her work on human rights at the State Department. And at the celebration of her life, her coworkers talked about all of her amazing accomplishments. (She seemingly had my dream job - though for me it is just a dream and not something I actually work towards nor am even near qualified for. For her it was a dream job and she lived it and was amazing at it.)

What I take away from this is that while she died young and leaves behind a loving husband and young daughter, she can take solace in the life she lived and what she accomplished; she has done so much for human rights around the world.

At Maxwell, we were taught the Athenian Oath, which ends as follows:

We will transmit this city not only not less, but greater, better and more beautiful than it was transmitted to us.

This means, at its most simple, to make sure that when we leave, that we have improved the world around us. My friend did this. And she did so much so soon, that even at the young age of 34 she can say she delivered the city much, much greater.

You might guess that there is political commentary coming. And you are right. I want to be able to say the same thing when I leave. And that is what I don't understand about conservatism. At it's base, it is about smaller government - less taxes and less services. Most often this means less services for those in need. And whether intentional or not, it often means under-producing other beneficial public goods like education and infrastructure.

The point is that I just can't imagine being satisfied with a life that is spent not improving the world, not trying to make things better, and not trying to help people. Without that, what is your legacy? We are only here for a brief time, and so we should be making sure we are improving the world while we are here. And that is why I am a Democrat.

I can only hope to come close to the example my friend left for us.